Hearing that someone was asking about me, it is good PR to go and meet a listener. Of course, meeting a listener is not always a friendly, feel-good pat on the back that one expects. The weight and impact of words-we do not weigh them properly before we speak them.
After a really brief introduction, I get this sense. One that comes very frequently.
"Yeah. Sometimes I hear you obviously struggling with Portugese."
"My wife could help you. She speaks...."
"Well, cool. I'd appreciate that."
Then the grand finish:
"I like your show
[I'm liking this]
until you start playing electronica
[Zoiks! Knew that was coming.]
then I turn it off."